In Vietnamese the word "Welcome" is often accompanied with the word "ask" and "invite", how to greet, offer, offer extra at each locality has a different tradition, again dependent on the object and greet style of greeting.
For the elderly, stand obsequious honorific "sir native instruments" are instruments in love immediately but for the middle class to do so advanced that it mocked people thought, "Go through the tilted cone does not offer" not because of hate each other so indifferent to each other but are so in love with words but also by the corner of the eyes smile, with eyes more clearly the case mouth.
Greetings go together, asked to offer: "He does not care?" "Where is he going there?" Many asked vaguely, asking not to be answered, but if not, then say hello to the people cold contempt.
Offered in parallel with each other: truly be distinguished invited or asked to change the greeting. Ridiculous! Passengers on two boats along the river, opposite each other are also invited to dinner invitation greeting rather than a purely one jumps to the other boats Where to eat! the official greeting is not higher than the trays. There are no trays when, just down the offer, e wrong, but indeed, all that high wheels bland greeting, despise, haughty, the trays are also omitted.
Expression style greeting people, to express the family's routines, fine traditions of both local and our nation. However, in each place is different, each a different time. The past few days offered by Lord, by now offering a shake. We will return to this issue in the question "Who is some one Lord."
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Sunday, February 6, 2011
Vocative in the family
Having considered all the family tree diagrams they know: I attached some life things, my life is on the who, what its genus, any branch, of the shoulder with her in them, which ones? There is a new scheme to distinguish in the secondary in each of them self-identified ethnic relations within which the true vocative, attaching a note, a medical doctor, he out me, you out so you ... Title within different ethnic vocative in society, from a reputation for "a stage mother." In society based on age and status positions in the clan-based stuff, but when dealing with particular individuals have to be combined in a way vocative in society in relation to age. By descent may be correct, he calls me Mr. A must pay, but I also call him "uncle" A, A because he was the old, known by her awkward and impolite. A I call him "uncle" is called instead of my grandchildren, even though my younger me but on the second level with his grandfather A. But if the little old too, but he also referred to by any means, it may be lowered by attaching a new order which called intimate.
While compiling our family tree with relatives in their questions: Genealogy is confusion between what we spend in them or not? Why did X. But my younger grandson, but I have to call him X. with him.
Please answer: it is a widespread phenomenon is nothing special. Even in a family with children including, but not yet released Arabia: the phenomenon of "You suck sister, feeding her children" is common in the old society, only two had died a difference life, then the row over their lifetime, the gap of three miles away there is nothing strange.
in rural dream relationship seconds through the interlaced roots of cheek connection between paternal and maternal relatives, the way vocative even more complex, usually the husband agreed to her uncle vocative with the local physician outside the same, but there are also cases where blood ties different body called by my husband, his wife called "uncle" or vice versa.But even so, "Blood of time than water", referred to by their relationship is more intimate family known as social relations.
While compiling our family tree with relatives in their questions: Genealogy is confusion between what we spend in them or not? Why did X. But my younger grandson, but I have to call him X. with him.
Please answer: it is a widespread phenomenon is nothing special. Even in a family with children including, but not yet released Arabia: the phenomenon of "You suck sister, feeding her children" is common in the old society, only two had died a difference life, then the row over their lifetime, the gap of three miles away there is nothing strange.
in rural dream relationship seconds through the interlaced roots of cheek connection between paternal and maternal relatives, the way vocative even more complex, usually the husband agreed to her uncle vocative with the local physician outside the same, but there are also cases where blood ties different body called by my husband, his wife called "uncle" or vice versa.But even so, "Blood of time than water", referred to by their relationship is more intimate family known as social relations.
Vocative couple together how?
Vietnam who have small to large, talking to old ears, but if used for foreign interpretations of expression is fully nuanced language since it interesting. For example: "My Home" translated into French as "Ma maison" the French do understand.
Nowadays young couples confess to each other "me me me me" how lovingly intimate! Although her husband less than three years older chips to be me. Back forty years ago, the European family of more or less, the couple called each other by "his" also express strong feelings, call each other by "you, open and elegant, but which also alien to the countryside, a modern but still want to call neighbors shy, just show love to each other secretly in the chamber, just enough for two people whispered to each other to listen.Calling each other by name "empty" is also a big improvement, but the old tools, just call each other by a young "boy was released," "u it", "mother him" ... New people get married without children, husbands do not have any positions that call then what? Nick too, is new to her sister, wanted to call her husband was playing on a neighbor, vocative not know how it came to a lane called "one dear! Go home to eat." From the "nobody" here is not the question words, pronouns, or just gossip that means "my dear husband."
But when talking to others, introducing his wife or her husband as "my house". From "my home" really strong bond, "her" and "me" but the two but one. "My Home" that is "my husband" or "my wife" can not say "wife", "her husband" is "it's his home state."
Husband and wife talk to each other or talk often empty, "Hey! Ra told me!" or "What nobody told me" ...
Nowadays young couples confess to each other "me me me me" how lovingly intimate! Although her husband less than three years older chips to be me. Back forty years ago, the European family of more or less, the couple called each other by "his" also express strong feelings, call each other by "you, open and elegant, but which also alien to the countryside, a modern but still want to call neighbors shy, just show love to each other secretly in the chamber, just enough for two people whispered to each other to listen.Calling each other by name "empty" is also a big improvement, but the old tools, just call each other by a young "boy was released," "u it", "mother him" ... New people get married without children, husbands do not have any positions that call then what? Nick too, is new to her sister, wanted to call her husband was playing on a neighbor, vocative not know how it came to a lane called "one dear! Go home to eat." From the "nobody" here is not the question words, pronouns, or just gossip that means "my dear husband."
But when talking to others, introducing his wife or her husband as "my house". From "my home" really strong bond, "her" and "me" but the two but one. "My Home" that is "my husband" or "my wife" can not say "wife", "her husband" is "it's his home state."
Husband and wife talk to each other or talk often empty, "Hey! Ra told me!" or "What nobody told me" ...
Referring how to correct?
This problem in the field of linguistics, education, but to involve many traditional customs. Hear new ideas so simple, the child was three well known. Indeed, children were learning to speak both parents and siblings showed a vocative, but still to big old mistakes. Sometimes just because a small error in the vocative which caused severe prejudice.
For other Asian countries, personal pronouns have three home: People say, people listen and people, objects, events mentioned in the statement.Only if there are six basic services in Vietnamese is simple: I, you, him, them, we create, we eyebrow.
For example: "My parents told me to bring grandchildren to visit my father, the two instruments." This question if for the translation from foreign languages are as follows: "They told me they gave it to meet you."
in Vietnam since we were small, should he then called his age, your age should not you be then called "press machine I", "a stage mother." We should sympathize with foreigners learning Vietnamese. Vietnamese personal pronouns are very diversified, but also very complex, this complex is difficult, even in personal pronouns have brought our feelings, express love, anger, respect , contemptuous hate, formal, informal ...
Vocative in the way of distinction we have a clear hierarchy. I asked her: Why he told me sir temperamental, so that his grandson said he had no natural children. I also do not understand why their parents called me the guy called me Yi Jia was also named the parents are not. Why old uncle then called "his children."
Vocative ways to use our words depends on the relative level between the speaker and the preliminary hearing. For example, very intimate friends call each other by machine, he is precious, my friends call each other by him or by him shall be deemed to ridicule your file together. In contrast, the new acquaintances that rudimentary machine is considered impolite, sometimes frustrating to hear answers not even discarded. Elderly and elderly man, but when it means "I asked the old man" is very different from "old man I asked." There are also cases of "senior" is not necessarily old, but how its nickname.
If their internal relations, they are called by the foreign relations of close friendship than sex, although his younger peers but their parents are known by the uncle, aunt in accordance with an honorific them. Conversely, for those who have older children, but despite the order to let out "offensive" so called by him, he, he he ... Considered rather call me, my grandchildren, so elegant and polite.
Purely social relationship, no relationship, but according to etiquette, "Director of parent most minnows, minnows collection of sub-chief" (more than a year old brother, a father more than ten years old), ie horizontal crown by the father that called uncle. This is allowed honored.
For other Asian countries, personal pronouns have three home: People say, people listen and people, objects, events mentioned in the statement.Only if there are six basic services in Vietnamese is simple: I, you, him, them, we create, we eyebrow.
For example: "My parents told me to bring grandchildren to visit my father, the two instruments." This question if for the translation from foreign languages are as follows: "They told me they gave it to meet you."
in Vietnam since we were small, should he then called his age, your age should not you be then called "press machine I", "a stage mother." We should sympathize with foreigners learning Vietnamese. Vietnamese personal pronouns are very diversified, but also very complex, this complex is difficult, even in personal pronouns have brought our feelings, express love, anger, respect , contemptuous hate, formal, informal ...
Vocative in the way of distinction we have a clear hierarchy. I asked her: Why he told me sir temperamental, so that his grandson said he had no natural children. I also do not understand why their parents called me the guy called me Yi Jia was also named the parents are not. Why old uncle then called "his children."
Vocative ways to use our words depends on the relative level between the speaker and the preliminary hearing. For example, very intimate friends call each other by machine, he is precious, my friends call each other by him or by him shall be deemed to ridicule your file together. In contrast, the new acquaintances that rudimentary machine is considered impolite, sometimes frustrating to hear answers not even discarded. Elderly and elderly man, but when it means "I asked the old man" is very different from "old man I asked." There are also cases of "senior" is not necessarily old, but how its nickname.
If their internal relations, they are called by the foreign relations of close friendship than sex, although his younger peers but their parents are known by the uncle, aunt in accordance with an honorific them. Conversely, for those who have older children, but despite the order to let out "offensive" so called by him, he, he he ... Considered rather call me, my grandchildren, so elegant and polite.
Purely social relationship, no relationship, but according to etiquette, "Director of parent most minnows, minnows collection of sub-chief" (more than a year old brother, a father more than ten years old), ie horizontal crown by the father that called uncle. This is allowed honored.
Teach your child from the womb square
Vietnam has a proverb saying: "Teach me from childhood square - Teaching helpless wife from the new square."
in here we want to raise: Not only children from childhood that square must teach children right from when they are in the womb. Because the material and spiritual life of the pregnant women directly affected the health and spirit of the child's future.
The ancients used to say: "Woman tenderness, are apt to have children. Thai is a natural product of the sky and land. He is not sick, do not need medication."
According to traditional medicine "... the human mind is fear gas power, coal and gas are not enough, the open fontanel, the human spleen regulate air meager, the child care discharge less shy. The mother is in air , why is she not careful! I do not drink a lot of drugs, alcohol, petrol and acupuncture do not skewer, do not go great, do not urinate on the spot often, do not climb dangerous storm brewing, do not shoulder the heavy , do not loose sex, do not sleep much, do not wear too warm, do not eat it too. The spirit must be sincere, not committed to the sexually frustrated (too happy, angry, too hurt, too jealous , love too, desire too etc. ..). For children born after this frank solemn mouth, the mother should say straight to work upright. Women do bad rap does not care delivery is, people thought that in heaven hate, who knows that: It is caused by themselves. Because air is thriving in the liver to the intestine, three circuits: the heart, spleen, kidneys were thriving so difficult birth ... " (According to "Spare the fluke of nature" of Hai Thuong Lan Ong).
Therefore folk have a saying: "Dry tree buds, single people without children."
Need to educate their children in the womb from which the scientific term called "Thai teachers." Ancient forebears were teachings future mothers (women) do not be angry, panic, do not think it's bad, bad work, heard it, looked miserable situation, to talk, walk grace ...
There is close relationship between fetal health and maternal mood, the unborn child with the outside world, react "receive" or "Denying" of the fetus before the impact of external environment .
According to scientific research: human personality is formed very early, even before birth. thoughts, feelings and the sadness in the joy of the mother child transmission. Many pregnant women know maintaining emotional balance thereby preserving the health of children. The pain suffered by the mother during pregnancy, strongly affected newborns. Passionate heart for the unborn child as a means of preserving the health of the child best, and may influence decisions to later mother-child relationship "...
in here we want to raise: Not only children from childhood that square must teach children right from when they are in the womb. Because the material and spiritual life of the pregnant women directly affected the health and spirit of the child's future.
The ancients used to say: "Woman tenderness, are apt to have children. Thai is a natural product of the sky and land. He is not sick, do not need medication."
According to traditional medicine "... the human mind is fear gas power, coal and gas are not enough, the open fontanel, the human spleen regulate air meager, the child care discharge less shy. The mother is in air , why is she not careful! I do not drink a lot of drugs, alcohol, petrol and acupuncture do not skewer, do not go great, do not urinate on the spot often, do not climb dangerous storm brewing, do not shoulder the heavy , do not loose sex, do not sleep much, do not wear too warm, do not eat it too. The spirit must be sincere, not committed to the sexually frustrated (too happy, angry, too hurt, too jealous , love too, desire too etc. ..). For children born after this frank solemn mouth, the mother should say straight to work upright. Women do bad rap does not care delivery is, people thought that in heaven hate, who knows that: It is caused by themselves. Because air is thriving in the liver to the intestine, three circuits: the heart, spleen, kidneys were thriving so difficult birth ... " (According to "Spare the fluke of nature" of Hai Thuong Lan Ong).
Therefore folk have a saying: "Dry tree buds, single people without children."
Need to educate their children in the womb from which the scientific term called "Thai teachers." Ancient forebears were teachings future mothers (women) do not be angry, panic, do not think it's bad, bad work, heard it, looked miserable situation, to talk, walk grace ...
There is close relationship between fetal health and maternal mood, the unborn child with the outside world, react "receive" or "Denying" of the fetus before the impact of external environment .
According to scientific research: human personality is formed very early, even before birth. thoughts, feelings and the sadness in the joy of the mother child transmission. Many pregnant women know maintaining emotional balance thereby preserving the health of children. The pain suffered by the mother during pregnancy, strongly affected newborns. Passionate heart for the unborn child as a means of preserving the health of the child best, and may influence decisions to later mother-child relationship "...
Vietnam customs
"Feng" is the style has spread, "Process" is a long-standing habits. The content covers all aspects of customs and social activities ....
Customs and customary law has become secondary, deep, rooted in people's very durable, powerful than the law. In the traditional culture of the people of Vietnam, has many fine traditions and customs need to make people moral, social discipline.
Customs and customary law has become secondary, deep, rooted in people's very durable, powerful than the law. In the traditional culture of our nation, there are many fine traditions and customs need to make people moral, social discipline.A revolution can be quickly changes, followed by a series of legal system is changed. Etiquette is also ever-changing trends in socio-cultural changes, but more persistent and has its own rules, not easy overnight was everyone, every family, every class to follow. Since then many people continue or to imitate each other, bad people will continue to mimic each other out gradually.
Themselves also in the tradition of social struggle has been and will continue forever between old and new. Even the concept of beauty is always changing. For example, the tufts of hair for men is clearly outdated, but also through the new long struggle to lose, but the black teeth of old women were praised as beautiful, as charming, several years after August Revolution nobody mandatory constraints that naturally disappear to make room for white teeth.
Movement to build a new cultural life today, not merely subjective based on the idea that to know the fine traditions applied to living, thinking, acting, how to treat the person, where with evolving trends. Traditional customs have originated from practical experience in the life of old, far more inappropriate time, become immorality, we also need research to know the reason, then apply for a new love with present and future, or timnhung or to add custom links which gradually eliminate bad ones.
Of course, the nature of each individual must live, communicate and integrate with society, the fashion bubble, contrary to custom, national identity, contrary to the eyes of the wider public will dig Waste and gradually eliminated. Therefore the tradition too, restore and promote the morals and customs, will surely be all strata support, welcome, restoration to revive the immorality will be condemned by society.
The content presented in the form of questions and answers in this book to answer only partially the origin of the custom has existed in our country, for your reference, self-analysis, in which one or so, which one should leave, which is limited to those deemed not leave immediately, depending on specific circumstances that apply tolerated for proper ...
The author himself would also be a small contribution in the fight above. We hope to receive understanding and support as well as the sincere comments of the audience near and far.
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